"What can I do today to prepare for tomorrow?" "How will this affect us next quarter?" "What does my team need to perform better?" "How can I learn from this?" 


"Let's look at this situation from another perspective." "What areas need to be re-examined ?" "Where did the process breakdown?" 


"Thank you for your help with the project." "Let's work together to get this done."  "How can I go above and beyond for this end-user?" "How can I give back to others?"